Guys have a hard time finding a place to meet a girl generally. If you’re a young guy who’s been through a lot of the hangouts in and around town, there are a few places that you probably haven’t tried because you just don’t know how worthwhile they are. Some of these suggestions may sound a bit wild, but you shouldn’t knock them till you give them a try. Women in today’s society tend to be looking for the non-stereotypical male to form a bond with and by finding women in places such as these, you’ve already got a leg up on the competition. Here are a few unorthodox places where you could stumble upon the girl of your dreams.
Hardware and Building Supply Depots
I know what you’re thinking. No guy goes to the hardware store to find a girl. Lumber and lighting fixtures, yes. A girl…much less so. The stereotype about a girl in a hardware store is she probably doesn’t know what she’s doing. The sad reality of the fact is, this is usually the case. Hardware stores serve as a place where you can strike up conversation easily with a woman and at the same time present an attractive male figure. It’s usually a manly type of man that can be found frequenting the aisles of a hardware or a building supply store. As an article by Nigel Barber outlines,
Men’s physical appearance tends to communicate social dominance, which has the combined effects of intimidating reproductive rivals and attracting mates.
This goes a long way towards making you attractive and there’s the added bonus of being able to help her solve her building woes. Nothing helps you bond faster than shopping together.
Yes, I can hear the collective sighs from all the guys who don’t read. If you don’t ready, you can disregard this one. But for the guys who frequent bookstores, this is a great way to meet someone who shares your interest and passion for the written word. The thing a lot of women see in a guy who reads is an intelligent male, and the women who frequent bookstores are usually in the market for guys like that. Prokosch et al note that,
Intelligence then may serve as both a cue of a mate’s provisioning abilities and his overall heritable phenotypic quality.
Over the ages, intelligent mates are usually the ones that can provide a safe and nurturing family life for offspring while at the same time being dedicated to a single spouse. This serves to present the intellectual male as a desirable mate for his loyalty and the ability to provide. Scientifically, it’s a good choice and when it comes to a book-reading woman, ‘scientifically’ would certainly matter to her.
Cooking, aerobics, even language classes are all great places to meet women and at the same time better yourself through learning something new. Whether it’s a new skill or something you need to brush up on, the class gives you a perfect opportunity to meet women there who are into the same interest as you. Suffice it to say that you shouldn’t take a class you’re not interested in just to meet women because you would come off seeming like a complete idiot when the truth comes out.
There are a lot of different places you can find to meet women of a certain class and type, but considering the type of woman you’re looking for would narrow down the places you’d want to search. Understanding that these places are not frequented by guys looking for women gives you the edge in finding a girl who’d like you for who you are. Less competition is better for you, because all you have to do is show her that you’re the most viable male around and when there are less males around that’s easier to do.